Getting over cheatingDating tips after they cheated on you
Getting over cheating
You found out your guy has been stepping out on you! You probably feel violated, ashamed, and insecure. It has happened to the best of us. The big question you ask yourself is why did he do it? You will most likely never know the answer. You may never be able to forgive him but you do need to get back in the saddle and start dating again.
Dating tips after an affair
Probably the biggest hurdle to overcome is trusting again tip off that he may be cheating is criticism. Do you find that you just can’t do or say anything right anymore? Remarks are made about your appearance or how you responded or reacted in a social situation was commented upon negatively.
You are accused of cheating. This is the granddaddy of them all! Sufficed to say, he may be as insecure as you or just plain jealous. However, odds are he may be cheating.
These are just a few of the ques you want to pay attention to. However, every move, gesture or word that comes from him shouldn’t be scrutinized. If you can’t relax and have fun then the relationship is probably not worth investing in. It may be time to move on.
Let’s face not all cheater should be stoned to death. Not that I am condoning it by any means but we have all been presented with the opportunity to cheat. Gawking at the hottie at your gym can be considered a form of cheating. What if that hottie asks you out for a protein drink after your workout ? Curiosity gets the best of you and you agree to it.
Dating tips for cheating
First and foremost DO NOT, under any circumstances tell ANYONE. Women love to gossip. Furthermore, it may be an opportunity for them to move in on your guy.
Do not go to a place your significant other or mutual friends may frequent.
If the date gets intimate, clean up well. Never return home reeking of another man’s cologne or smelling of sex.
Get rid of the extra contraceptives. Do not keep a plethora of condoms in your purse!
Should you become a repeat offender, clean out your electronics whatever form of communications you have with him.
Don’t use credit cards that may be questioned when the statements arrive. Get rid of any incriminating receipts.
Should your SO become suspicious and throw accusations your way, do not get angry, pass it off as a joke. Getting angry is defensive and can possibly raise more doubts.
Let’s face it cheating is not right but it is a fact of life. If you have been cheated on it may take some time to trust again. On the other hand if you are the cheater and get caught then you face the consequences. Bottom line, honesty is best. If you don’t love somebody don’t commit to a monogamous relationship.